This Sunday we celebrate Father’s Day and we remember in a special way all that fathers do for their children. Being a father is a great privilege and also a great responsibility. Fathers are challenged to set a good example for their children and to help prepare them for their lives as adults. This is especially important for fathers in these difficult and uncertain times when their children, especially teens, may face many temptations and trials which may influence their behavior.
Our late Holy Father, Pope Francis placed great emphasis and focus on fatherhood.
As noted in the media publication, “National Catholic Register”, shortly before his death, he stated, “Every family needs a father – a father who shares in his family’s joy and pain, hands down wisdom to his children, and offers them firm guidance.” He also expressed his hope that all fathers would be like Saint Joseph and that they would strive “to protect their children and teach them wisdom, faith and integrity.” Pope Francis also prayed that fathers would “always experience our gratitude, appreciation and support.”
As we reflect on these words of Pope Francis, we are reminded that we are called to honor our fathers. There should be a desire to maintain a strong bond of communication with them and assist in their care in their later years, after the many years that they have cared for us in so many different ways. It is also suggested that we pray for them after their death. Our love for our fathers should reflect the love that God has for us. Many fathers have their share of trials and struggles but they do their best within their human limitations to serve as mentors and guides for their children.
We are also encouraged to pray for our spiritual fathers, our priests. In addition, we should also remember those fathers who are separated from their children due to military service obligations, work requirements, or for other reasons. Although separated physically, we pray that they will always keep their love of their children in their hearts.
The following “A Prayer for Christian Fathers” from an unknown author asks our Heavenly Father to bless, guide, and support all fathers:
Heavenly Father,
you entrusted your Son Jesus, the child of Mary, to the care of Joseph, an earthly father.
Bless all fathers as they care for their families.
Give them strength and wisdom, tenderness and patience.
Support them in the work they have to do, protecting those who look to them,
as we look to you for love and salvation,
through Jesus Christ our rock and defender. Amen.
As we reflect on this prayer, and as we celebrate this day, we are invited to thank Our Heavenly Father for the gift of our fathers and for the many blessings He has bestowed on us.